As with their first daughter Lauren, whatever Allie does or says will now provide a rich resource for Parker’s ministry.
Pastor Darren Parker of Covenant Church welcomed his second sermon illustration on Thursday, a baby girl named Allie May who weighed 8 lbs. 1 oz. and promises to provide years of funny anecdotes for her father’s weekly messages.
“I am so overjoyed at little Allie May’s arrival and can’t wait to use every detail of her life in stories I tell from the pulpit,” says Parker sitting next to his wife’s bed. “What an awesome privilege.”
As with their first daughter Lauren, whatever Allie does or says will now provide a rich resource for Parker’s ministry. The Parkers even chose the name “Allie May” because it flows so well off the tongue.
Parker often brings along a scratch pad to take notes on each of his children’s actions and utterances which might support a point in his messages. He then delves into the meaning of even the most minute word or gesture. Recently, while out to ice cream with Lauren, Parker jotted extensive observations about her decision-making.
“She was conflicted about ordering orange sherbet or rocky road, and she stood there pondering the choice for quite some time,” he says. “In the end she chose rocky road not for the flavor but because there’s ‘more stuff in it.’ What a powerful lesson for all of us.”
The full article is available here
Saturday, May 31, 2014
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Benediction: A Strong Foundation In The Storm (based on Matthew 7:24-27)
When life’s inevitable storms come our way, may our hope in God be a strong foundation and a secure footing for our souls. May we also seek out ways to be God’s hope to our fellow travelers on life’s path.
Responsive Call To Worship: God Speaking To Our Souls (based on Psalm 119)
Reader: God, you continually move within and around us.
All: You are always speaking to our souls, whether we hear it or not.
Reader: May we tend to these seeds that you plant so that they can grow.
All: We need your grace to water our often dry, dehydrated souls.
Reader: May we hear your voice in everything within and around us.
All: Make our souls open to your grace and love in every part of the universe.
Reader: God, you move us like a gentle breeze on the water.
May our minds be open in expectation.
All: May our hearts be stirred by your spirit
as we read, sing and listen together.
All: You are always speaking to our souls, whether we hear it or not.
Reader: May we tend to these seeds that you plant so that they can grow.
All: We need your grace to water our often dry, dehydrated souls.
Reader: May we hear your voice in everything within and around us.
All: Make our souls open to your grace and love in every part of the universe.
Reader: God, you move us like a gentle breeze on the water.
May our minds be open in expectation.
All: May our hearts be stirred by your spirit
as we read, sing and listen together.
Monday, May 26, 2014
Friday, May 23, 2014
To the Dying Church: Sharing our Wounds - by Cindy Brandt in Sojourner's
But we do not come to you carrying that much pain just so we can sing some feel-good songs and be sent on our way.
Dear Church,
You are dying because you've been applying band aids for a far deeper problem. You are consistently doling out superficial remedies for surface wounds when the source of pain lays untreated.
Dear Church,
You are dying because you've been applying band aids for a far deeper problem. You are consistently doling out superficial remedies for surface wounds when the source of pain lays untreated.
When hurting people walk through
your doors, you play the positive thinking guru and dispense quick fixes with
inspirational quotes. You provide cheap grace and empty promises that are
driving people out your doors.
You
have traded in a revolution for a scripted life.
Why do you insist on being sanitized? Why are you so afraid of the mess? We want you to point us to the God who is not afraid to enter the messiness of our humanity.
Looking outward we see unspeakable violence perpetrated against the weakest among us. We see mass destruction of trees, animal species driven to extinction, and waters polluted by human greed. We see nations fighting, people persecuted, and children dying of abject poverty. Looking inward we find our own feelings of loneliness, isolation, powerlessness, and guilt. We are confused, afraid, and hurting.
Why do you insist on being sanitized? Why are you so afraid of the mess? We want you to point us to the God who is not afraid to enter the messiness of our humanity.
Looking outward we see unspeakable violence perpetrated against the weakest among us. We see mass destruction of trees, animal species driven to extinction, and waters polluted by human greed. We see nations fighting, people persecuted, and children dying of abject poverty. Looking inward we find our own feelings of loneliness, isolation, powerlessness, and guilt. We are confused, afraid, and hurting.
But we do not come to you carrying that much
pain, just so we can sing some feel-good songs and be sent on our way. You have missed the mark on addressing a deep, felt need to be meaningful. We want to speak the truth about
how truly messed up we are, in your sanctuary: a safe haven. Safe to be real,
safe to hurt, safe to lament. A safe place to figure it all out with other
broken people.
We don’t want the band aid: we
want to air out our wounds in an atmosphere inviting true healing. We need to
feel the extent of our pain so we can be driven to find the root causes. We
want to share our wounds with one another, because when it really, really
hurts, it matters to know we are not alone.
Help
us wade through these deep, dark waters of anxiety; together in the diminishing
numbers of communities which are hobbling forward by faith. It hurts to dig
deeper. It’s painful to get inside of our anxieties and face them full-on.
The full article is variable here
Prayer - Holiness Is About The Work of Redemption & Transformation
When we sing of your holiness, it is our way of reminding ourselves that you are the source of redemption and transformation in life. Reveal yourself to us; guide us according to your grace and wisdom. Teach us how to love as you have loved us. May we then be your hands and feet, so that those weak with sorrow find joy, those in despair find new hope, those frightened find peace and those bound find freedom. Amen
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
2 Big Ways To Keep Your Church Music Fresh - Church Leaders
There is no pat answer for avoiding cliché. It takes extra care and intentionality by each and every person involved in the creative process.
The common misconception is that if something works for a while, it will work forever. This is commonplace in the Church. We become attached to our practices.
In order to keep the Gospel message of Jesus Christ fresh, you do not need more. But you do need change. Innovation means something new.
For church band leaders, we can keep things fresh by doing a couple of simple things.
1. Remove “safety” from your Sunday service ideals
Safety is important when it comes to keeping my children alive or making sure I stay on the right side of the road. I promise you that the person who is stepping into church for the first time in 10 years fully expects to be rocked a little. Precaution from you will only lead to precaution from them.
2. Look at what has comatosed your congregation
There is no pat answer for avoiding cliché. It takes extra care and intentionality by each and every person involved in the creative process. A good idea would be to go back through your services and see what has comatosed your crowd, and disturb and disrupt them to a place where they are able to see Christ’s face fresh again.
The full article is available here
The common misconception is that if something works for a while, it will work forever. This is commonplace in the Church. We become attached to our practices.
In order to keep the Gospel message of Jesus Christ fresh, you do not need more. But you do need change. Innovation means something new.
For church band leaders, we can keep things fresh by doing a couple of simple things.
1. Remove “safety” from your Sunday service ideals
Safety is important when it comes to keeping my children alive or making sure I stay on the right side of the road. I promise you that the person who is stepping into church for the first time in 10 years fully expects to be rocked a little. Precaution from you will only lead to precaution from them.
2. Look at what has comatosed your congregation
There is no pat answer for avoiding cliché. It takes extra care and intentionality by each and every person involved in the creative process. A good idea would be to go back through your services and see what has comatosed your crowd, and disturb and disrupt them to a place where they are able to see Christ’s face fresh again.
The full article is available here
Monday, May 19, 2014
I Am The Way - Kayla McClurg in Inward/Outward
The way of Jesus is a giving-receiving-confronting-sacrificial way that does not seek its own security. It embraces, never shuns, the outsider.
The interpretation of this one pivotal passage has meant the difference for many between loving or hating religion in general and Christianity in particular.
Did Jesus really believe God is limited to only one way to reach humankind? Did he intend to exclude all who seek God on other paths?
How this statement gets interpreted probably says more about the interpreter than about Jesus. Whether we see the way and the truth and the life of Jesus as generously inclusive, or narrowly bound, might indicate how free or limited is our own inner realm.
Throughout his public ministry, Jesus clearly shows that he did not come to establish philosophical theories about God, but to give us a way—a way to journey to God, and with God, in right here, right now practices of love.
The way of Jesus is a giving-receiving-confronting-sacrificial way that does not seek its own security. It embraces, never shuns, the outsider. It is a way that calls us to lay down the limited vision of our private paths and to join others as a sign to the world of God’s great community of compassion.
When I hear Jesus saying, “I am the way,” I hear, “This way I’ve been living is the way.” The truth and life of my life, rooted in mercy and an ever-expanding generosity, are the way to God.
The full article is available here
The interpretation of this one pivotal passage has meant the difference for many between loving or hating religion in general and Christianity in particular.
Did Jesus really believe God is limited to only one way to reach humankind? Did he intend to exclude all who seek God on other paths?
How this statement gets interpreted probably says more about the interpreter than about Jesus. Whether we see the way and the truth and the life of Jesus as generously inclusive, or narrowly bound, might indicate how free or limited is our own inner realm.
Throughout his public ministry, Jesus clearly shows that he did not come to establish philosophical theories about God, but to give us a way—a way to journey to God, and with God, in right here, right now practices of love.
The way of Jesus is a giving-receiving-confronting-sacrificial way that does not seek its own security. It embraces, never shuns, the outsider. It is a way that calls us to lay down the limited vision of our private paths and to join others as a sign to the world of God’s great community of compassion.
When I hear Jesus saying, “I am the way,” I hear, “This way I’ve been living is the way.” The truth and life of my life, rooted in mercy and an ever-expanding generosity, are the way to God.
The full article is available here
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Benediction: Live Out Real Love
May we follow God’s example
so that we can live out real love.
May we be people of steadfast hope
and powerful giving.
May who God is and how Jesus lived challenge us
to give of ourselves in service and love.
so that we can live out real love.
May we be people of steadfast hope
and powerful giving.
May who God is and how Jesus lived challenge us
to give of ourselves in service and love.
Reflection and Renewal: Living In Love (based on 1 John 4:7)
God,
There are times when we want to love in the way that you've showed us, but we aren't able to. Other times we are on auto-pilot and don’t give any thought or attention to living a life of love. And other times we are simply unwilling to love.
We are in need of forgiveness and mercy. In your endless love and bottomless grace, forgive us and help us to learn to let go of our guilt, apathy and lovelessness. In it’s place, let our hearts beat with your love, to set things right here and now as in heaven. Let us be attentive and willing to pass on your love. Amen.
We are in need of forgiveness and mercy. In your endless love and bottomless grace, forgive us and help us to learn to let go of our guilt, apathy and lovelessness. In it’s place, let our hearts beat with your love, to set things right here and now as in heaven. Let us be attentive and willing to pass on your love. Amen.
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
Responsive Call To Worship: Come Into God's Presence (based on Psalm 103)
Reader: We are thirsty and parched, like an unwatered garden, so we come into God’s presence.
All: It is like a fresh-water spring.
Reader: We are exhausted from worry and struggling, so we come into God’s presence
All: There, we are offered rest.
Reader: We are lost and confused, so we come into God’s presence.
All: There, we are offered welcome and guidance.
Reader: We are weighed down with guilt and pain, so we come into God’s presence
All: It helps us to remain standing.
Reader: Let us give thanks with singing
All: Let us always remember God's goodness and love towards us.
All: It is like a fresh-water spring.
Reader: We are exhausted from worry and struggling, so we come into God’s presence
All: There, we are offered rest.
Reader: We are lost and confused, so we come into God’s presence.
All: There, we are offered welcome and guidance.
Reader: We are weighed down with guilt and pain, so we come into God’s presence
All: It helps us to remain standing.
Reader: Let us give thanks with singing
All: Let us always remember God's goodness and love towards us.
Thursday, May 8, 2014
The U.S. Church's Absence of Lament - Soong-Chan Rah in Emerging Voices
For U.S. evangelicals riding the fumes of a previous generation’s Christendom assumptions, a triumphalist theology of celebration and privilege - rooted in a praise-only narrative - is perpetuated by the absence of lament and the underlying narrative of pain, suffering, and injustice that informs lament.
When we consider the typical church worship service in the United States, we discover certain trends. Lament and stories of suffering are conspicuously absent.
In Hurting with God, Glenn Pemberton notes that laments constitute 40% of the Psalms. Christian Copyright Licensing International (CCLI) licenses local churches for the use of contemporary worship songs. CCLI tracks the songs that are employed by local churches, and its list of the top 100 worship songs as of August 2012 reveals that only five of the songs would qualify as a lament.
How we worship reveals what we prioritize. The American church avoids lament. Consequently the underlying narrative of suffering that requires lament is lost in lieu of a triumphalistic, victorious narrative. We forget the necessity of lament over suffering and pain.
Lament acknowledges the pain and suffering that has led to current injustices. Lament challenges the status quo of injustice. American Christians that flourish under the existing system seek to maintain the status quo and avoid lament.
Self-absorbed Christians who are apathetic towards injustice don't suddenly appear by happenstance.
For American evangelicals riding the fumes of a previous generation’s Christendom assumptions, a triumphalist theology of celebration and privilege rooted in a praise-only narrative is perpetuated by the absence of lament and the underlying narrative of pain, suffering, and injustice that informs lament.
The full article is available here
When we consider the typical church worship service in the United States, we discover certain trends. Lament and stories of suffering are conspicuously absent.
In Hurting with God, Glenn Pemberton notes that laments constitute 40% of the Psalms. Christian Copyright Licensing International (CCLI) licenses local churches for the use of contemporary worship songs. CCLI tracks the songs that are employed by local churches, and its list of the top 100 worship songs as of August 2012 reveals that only five of the songs would qualify as a lament.
How we worship reveals what we prioritize. The American church avoids lament. Consequently the underlying narrative of suffering that requires lament is lost in lieu of a triumphalistic, victorious narrative. We forget the necessity of lament over suffering and pain.
Lament acknowledges the pain and suffering that has led to current injustices. Lament challenges the status quo of injustice. American Christians that flourish under the existing system seek to maintain the status quo and avoid lament.
Self-absorbed Christians who are apathetic towards injustice don't suddenly appear by happenstance.
For American evangelicals riding the fumes of a previous generation’s Christendom assumptions, a triumphalist theology of celebration and privilege rooted in a praise-only narrative is perpetuated by the absence of lament and the underlying narrative of pain, suffering, and injustice that informs lament.
The full article is available here
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
A New Story - Kayla McClurg in Inward/Outward
We catch brief glimpses, tiny threads of sacred story weaving through our lives, before we slip back into familiar ruts, old narratives, sleep. We crave assurances of the divine, the felt awareness of being companioned by the holy, yet we miss them daily.
A sideways glance from a stranger for some reason pierces our depths; an overheard half-sentence stays with us, like a warning, a love note, an instruction; a brown leaf flutters to the ground and lands on a sprig of green just now arising. For a brief moment we sense the unity of heaven and earth, our mundane existence singing with the life that is Life.
Jesus moves easily in such liminal spaces. Through our locked doors, out on the open road, he reaches out to us, our catalyst and companion.
Meeting Jesus along the way changes our story. Something dead in us, in our communities, is coming alive. The holy is here. Whether we notice or not, we are meeting Jesus on the road.
What do you suppose would be his version ofyour story? Would it be the one about the same old hurts and disappointments and loss, or would these have to give way, uprooted now by grace? I wonder who he would say you are, not were, and what he might say you are here for. I wonder if your heart would warm to hear his version of your story.
We are being remade. What will the rest of the story be? It’s time to start telling it new.
The full article is available here
Sunday, May 4, 2014
Saturday, May 3, 2014
Thesis for a New Reformation - Carl Krieg in Progressive Christianity
The traditional Christian church with its traditional message and image is becoming increasingly irrelevant. It really is time to rethink and reform how we understand both church and world.
We all feel a certain emptiness and search for meaning in life. We all experience moments in which we are lifted out of ourselves by something that transcends our being. We all need to be with others whom we love and who love us.
Today, as always, the world needs a reminder and an image of what it means to be a caring and sharing community, and that is a function well-suited to the church. Other communities can and may and do exhibit the same wholeness, and the function of the church in this regard is to celebrate the love and happiness it sees elsewhere, to reach out to it, and to exemplify that love and happiness in its own being, extending the invitation to share in its community.
The function of the church is threefold. First, and speaking negatively, it is not to convert people to the “one true religion”. It is, rather, to help everyone overcome their parochial perspective, search for meaning, experience those “moments”, and love and be loved.
Secondly, the function of the church is to share the story in Jesus that we are enabled to overcome our parochialism, fill the void in our lives, discover God anew in those moments, and love others.
And, thirdly, we must join with others in doing good in the world.
The full article is available here
We all feel a certain emptiness and search for meaning in life. We all experience moments in which we are lifted out of ourselves by something that transcends our being. We all need to be with others whom we love and who love us.
Today, as always, the world needs a reminder and an image of what it means to be a caring and sharing community, and that is a function well-suited to the church. Other communities can and may and do exhibit the same wholeness, and the function of the church in this regard is to celebrate the love and happiness it sees elsewhere, to reach out to it, and to exemplify that love and happiness in its own being, extending the invitation to share in its community.
The function of the church is threefold. First, and speaking negatively, it is not to convert people to the “one true religion”. It is, rather, to help everyone overcome their parochial perspective, search for meaning, experience those “moments”, and love and be loved.
Secondly, the function of the church is to share the story in Jesus that we are enabled to overcome our parochialism, fill the void in our lives, discover God anew in those moments, and love others.
And, thirdly, we must join with others in doing good in the world.
The full article is available here
Saturday, April 26, 2014
Call To Worship: The Trinity (based on 2 Corinthians 13:14)
The words which God speaks are the life, the sustenance, of all that is – seen and unseen. The life which Jesus gives is the renewed birth of every broken and wounded creature.
The presence of the Spirit is the inspiration for creativity, compassion and community
Life-giving, Life-restoring, Life-fulfilling God, may our worship seek to honor you. May our hearts be devoted to you. May we grow in love, with every part of our lives being worship to you.
Responsive Call To Worship: The Trinity (based on 2 Corinthians 13:14)
3 divine persons in one being.
All: The words you speak, God ...
Reader: ... are the life, the sustenance,
of all that is – seen and unseen.
All: The life you give, Jesus ...
Reader: ... is the recreation, the renewed birth of every
broken and wounded creature.
All: The breath you breath, Spirit ...
Reader: ... is the inspiration for creativity,
compassion and community
All: Life-giving, Life-restoring, Life-fulfilling God ...
Reader: ... may our worship seek to honor you.
May our hearts be devoted to you.
All: May we grow in love, with every part of our lives
being worship to you.
Reflection and Renewal: Healthy Growth vs Wanting Power or Remaining Stuck (based on Matthew 3:10)
God, your hope is that we would all grow in compassion, mercy, and kindness together as your creation; that we would be a web of grace, interwoven together.
Even though we say we want this kind of healthy growth, our lives show just the opposite all too often. Sometimes we strive to grow great and powerful so that we can dominate others and have control. Other times we grow cynical, selfish, and apathetic. And sometimes our growth gets stunted because we’re stuck somehow and are unable to thrive.
God, we need your grace. Help us to reorient our desires and priorities.
Where we’re stuck, help us to see the next step to get unstuck. Steer us towards what you've designed to be; grace and love to and for one another.
Amen.
Even though we say we want this kind of healthy growth, our lives show just the opposite all too often. Sometimes we strive to grow great and powerful so that we can dominate others and have control. Other times we grow cynical, selfish, and apathetic. And sometimes our growth gets stunted because we’re stuck somehow and are unable to thrive.
God, we need your grace. Help us to reorient our desires and priorities.
Where we’re stuck, help us to see the next step to get unstuck. Steer us towards what you've designed to be; grace and love to and for one another.
Amen.
Benediction: Live In Faith, Abound In Hope, Grow In Love (based on Romans 15:13)
May the grace of Christ sustain us, the love of God surround us, and the Holy Spirit inspire us; that we may live in faith, abound in hope, and grow in love.
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Praise Music Discontent: Part 1 - Missing the Biblical Narrative & Why The Music That You Do Matters - Jeff Wiersma
"Our music should reflect the sophisticated, creative, beautiful and big God whom it aims to worship. But due to the lowest common denominator nature of Praise Music, we aren't exposed to new expressions of faith in God and living in a community of grace." - Richard Kentopp
There are no shortage of excellent online articles about the shortcomings of Praise Music. Among them, I have appreciated Don’t Call Me A Worship Leader by Elias Drummer, Is Your Worship Welcoming To Those Not Like You? by Dr David W. Manner and An Open Letter To Worship Songwriters by Brian McClaren.
I highly recommend all of them and draw upon the regularly. Yet none of these pieces comprehensively addressed the totality of my thoughts on the topic.
So I decided to compile several years' worth of notes from those and other pieces that I've read, discussions that I've had with some creative, deep-thinking friends and observations I have made in my time as a band leader at a local church.
This series, entitled "Praise Music Discontent" consists of 3 parts:
- Part 1 - Missing the Biblical Narrative and Why The Music That You Do Matters
- Part 2 - Demographics That Are Malnourished By Praise Music
- Part 3 - An Alternate Approach
In Part 1, I will discuss ...
- “Praise Music” Defined
- How Does Praise Music Miss Out On The Biblical Narrative?
- Why Does The Music A Church Uses Matter?
"Praise Music" Defined
When I
use the words "Praise Music," I am referring to a highly
commercialized, mostly American/British/Australian genre put out by the Christian Music Industry, an industry that creates a product that is designed to
sell as a consumer good.
How Does Praise Music Miss Out On The Biblical Narrative?
Biblical Narrative Is Real Life, Warts and All
In Hurting with God, Glenn Pemberton notes that laments constitute 40% of the Psalms. Christian Copyright Licensing International (CCLI) licenses local churches for the use of contemporary worship songs. CCLI tracks the songs that are employed by local churches, and its list of the top 100 worship songs as of August 2012 reveals that only 5 of the songs would qualify as a lament!
In Hurting with God, Glenn Pemberton notes that laments constitute 40% of the Psalms. Christian Copyright Licensing International (CCLI) licenses local churches for the use of contemporary worship songs. CCLI tracks the songs that are employed by local churches, and its list of the top 100 worship songs as of August 2012 reveals that only 5 of the songs would qualify as a lament!
Praise Music often tends to focus primarily on the most transcendent, ultra-spiritual parts of life, which accounts for only a minuscule percentage of reality and existence.
As a contrast, the Bible is a rich narrative. It is full of examples of faith being lived out in the full 100% of what human beings encounter in life. Real life isn't rapturous spiritual bliss. People need to know they are not alone in struggling. People need other people to be brave in telling their own honest, real stories.
Biblical Narrative Is Communal, Holistic
Praise Music most often communicates in
individualistic terms, much like consumer advertising and
marketing do. However, the Biblical narrative uses communal language; like "The Kingdom of God," "The Church," "The Whole Earth." The church should be creating and using art that accurately reflects the overflowing and abundant nature of grace and redemption - let alone that they are supposed to be Jesus to those who are struggling ("Lord, when did we see you hungry?).
A crucial question for me is, "Can catch-phrases and sloganeering accurately convey the counter-culture teachings of the Biblical narrative?"
The church's music should reflect the sophisticated, creative, beautiful and big God whom it aims to worship. But due to the lowest common denominator nature of most Praise Music, we aren't exposed to new expressions of faith in God and living in a community of grace.
Additionally, the arrangement and key-choice of many Praise Music songs are intended to show-off the solo vocal abilities of the performer. This sells records and creates profits for the CCM industry.
While this is somewhat understandable in a world of The Voice and American Idol, these showcase pieces are often ill-suited for a time of communal singing. In both their vocabulary ("I" versus "we") and vocal accessibility, they don't facilitate the participation of everyone gathered in a corporate expression of faith in song.
Despite these drawbacks, it has become second-nature within many churches to use "Praise and Worship Music" in their services.
As Elias Drummer explains, "[I]n the evangelical world, 'worship' has come to refer to something like God-focused music. And music is inherently emotional. So it follows that our understanding of 'worship' could then be reduced to the personal expression of a God-centered, emotional experience. This then shapes our expectations in a church setting."
The church's music should reflect the sophisticated, creative, beautiful and big God whom it aims to worship. But due to the lowest common denominator nature of most Praise Music, we aren't exposed to new expressions of faith in God and living in a community of grace.
Additionally, the arrangement and key-choice of many Praise Music songs are intended to show-off the solo vocal abilities of the performer. This sells records and creates profits for the CCM industry.
While this is somewhat understandable in a world of The Voice and American Idol, these showcase pieces are often ill-suited for a time of communal singing. In both their vocabulary ("I" versus "we") and vocal accessibility, they don't facilitate the participation of everyone gathered in a corporate expression of faith in song.
Despite these drawbacks, it has become second-nature within many churches to use "Praise and Worship Music" in their services.
As Elias Drummer explains, "[I]n the evangelical world, 'worship' has come to refer to something like God-focused music. And music is inherently emotional. So it follows that our understanding of 'worship' could then be reduced to the personal expression of a God-centered, emotional experience. This then shapes our expectations in a church setting."
Why Does The Music A Church Uses Matter?
Some churches design their weekly service to be a place where people can grow
together in the context of a community.
Other's priority is to create a safe place for people that have given up on church but not on God.
Either way, the songs that we choose and their vocabulary say a lot more to people about our churches than we probably realize.
Other's priority is to create a safe place for people that have given up on church but not on God.
Either way, the songs that we choose and their vocabulary say a lot more to people about our churches than we probably realize.
Language MattersThe vocabulary we use in church has built-in expectations and assumed meanings associated with it, and these shape how we view reality.
To get a better grasp on this idea, it can be helpful to look at some interesting findings in the field of brain science.
Researchers have found that the human brain is in a constant state of rewiring, something called neuroplasticity. Unused pathways in our mind dissolve and new ones, with repetition and focus, are formed. This means that what we think about and say actually changes the way that our brains physically function.
In other words, language effects how we view the ideas that we attempt to describe and helps us to form our expectations of the world around us.
This means that even a small change in wording can radically alter our perceptions. (For a poignant demonstration of exactly how much perspective matters, check out The Same Place, From A Different Angle)
Storytelling vs Slogans
The idea that a small change in wording can radically alter perceptions is something that effective preachers understand and implement.
Each week, they use a text that many in attendance have heard before and likely have even heard sermons preached from before. The preacher's task is to work with this familiar passage in order to draw new meaning out of it, to stimulate the thinking and questions that spur growth and to bring new life from it. Like a good artist, skilled preachers tilt our heads and change the vantage point from which we view things.
Effective preachers bring other perspectives on and understandings of the subject at hand into view. Then they tie it all back into the redemptive work of God. They often draw upon stories from their own lives, communities or cultures. This is the timeless story-teller technique of helping listeners make a story their own by helping them to identify with it.
Jesus loved to teach in parables. The choice of characters, settings and plots in his parables were tailored to relate to those gathered. It's interesting to note that the way in which Jesus told stories often left the audience with more questions than answers, and often any answer he gave was cryptic and incarnational; meaning it need to worked out in life of the person it was addressed to.
So why doesn't church music do the same?
Would any congregation tolerate their pastor reading someone else's sermons verbatim? Wouldn't the anecdotes not at all fit the congregations lives, community or culture? Whereas effective preachers (including Jesus) are skillful story-tellers in their specific setting, Praise Music more often resembles an infomercial.
Surely good pastors are inspired and informed by the work of other pastors. Still, the best sermons always seem to result from the preacher running whatever is being used as teaching material through filters; filters who's goal is to make the story and subject matter as genuine and relevant as possible for the specific cultural context and community. This is a bottom-up, grass roots approach that allows new, fresh and dynamic revisiting of faith.
Yet every single week, churches use unfiltered Praise Music. While often the most effective service elements are part of an effort to make the experience real to the congregation's context at a grass roots level, Praise Music is a franchise, top-down, one-size-fits-all approach more akin to AstroTurf. In my opinion, this doesn't allow for new, fresh revisiting of Christianity's radical, dynamic teachings.
- Part 2 - Demographics That Are Malnourished by Praise Music
- Part 3 - An Alternate Approach
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
Praise Music Discontent: Part 2 - Demographics That Are Malnourished by Praise Music - Jeff Wiersma
"When we continue to trot out the same old, stale Praise Music year after year, decade after decade, it sends the message (hopefully unintentional) to these demographics that they are not an audience worthy of consideration or attention, let alone being understood, accommodated or valued."
In Part 1 - "Missing The Biblical Narrative & Why Music That You Do Matters" - I provided a lot of questions to think about regarding how the church relies too heavily on unfiltered Praise Music and the missed opportunities that result from that.
In Part 3 - "An Alternate Approach" - I will explain some of the techniques and practices I have implemented in the effort to provide a more holistic, corporate, creatively and intellectually satisfying and engaging time of music during Sunday Service.
In Part 2, I will discuss how the following demographic groups are malnourished spirituality by Praise Music...
- Praise Music and Those Already Attending Church
- Praise Music and Those Not Already Attending Church
- Praise Music, Gen X and Millenials
Praise Music and Those Already Attending
These points apply mainly to churches whose weekly service is meant to be a place where people of faith can grow together in the context of a community. (However they also apply to churches whose weekly service is designed to be a safe place for people that have given up on church but not on God, especially if they have people who have stuck around, kept attending and want to grow spiritually.)
Spiritual Growth
One main area where Praise Music fails those who already attend church is in what it teaches about God. According to our creeds and Biblical narrative, God is triune and lives in community. Christianity isn't a private relationship.
Yet you wouldn't know this based on the individualistic lyrics in a lot of Praise Music.
Yet you wouldn't know this based on the individualistic lyrics in a lot of Praise Music.
In their book Worship Words - Disciplining Language For Faithful Ministry, authors Debra and Ron Rienstra cite Lester Ruth's research on Trinitarian language in contemporary worship music. Ruth, who teaches worship and liturgy at Asbury Theological Seminary, used Christian Copyright Licensing Information (CCLI) top 25 song data from 1989-2004. (Many songs stayed so popular that only 72 songs made the list during that time).
NONE of the songs named the Trinity or God's triune nature. Just 3 songs mentioned all three persons of the Trinity. Most named only Jesus.
According to our creeds and Biblical narrative, what God does is the holistic, incarnational work of redemption. This is far cry from the often compartmentalized and escapist lyrics often found in a lot of Praise Music. The missed opportunities to teach of the relational dynamic of the Triune God and richness of redemption that Praise Music represents are indeed heart-breaking.
The post-enlightenment church has reduced the beauty of a community of faith doing theology in dialogue to an individualistic, reductionist and linear enterprise. However the current transition from modern to post-modern necessitates the utilization of creative, lateral thinking at the congregational level to get beyond the shallowness of contemporary evangelicalism.
We need to be helped to think bigger. Sadly, Praise Music is often not up to the task.
We need to be helped to think bigger. Sadly, Praise Music is often not up to the task.
Depth and Meaning
Praise Music is certainly helpful to some specific demographics among those who already attend church, but there is a significant and growing population within the church (and among those who - while spiritually active and seeking - have left it) to whom a lot of Praise Music isn't helpful at all.
Many praise songs don't say the significant things they (as well as I) want to say to or about God. The art that nourishes these people is deeper and engaging; causing them to stop, look and listen. It takes a questioning, reflective posture.
Many praise songs don't say the significant things they (as well as I) want to say to or about God. The art that nourishes these people is deeper and engaging; causing them to stop, look and listen. It takes a questioning, reflective posture.
As religious survey group U.S. Congregations says, "[s]trong congregations (make) certain their services are connecting with all. Are there unmet needs in your congregation? Is it time to offer more variety in worship and music styles?"
Some people want to scuba dive and explore the depth of the water and all that it contains instead of jet skiing across the surface.
Some people want to scuba dive and explore the depth of the water and all that it contains instead of jet skiing across the surface.
Praise Music and Those Not Attending
These points apply mainly to churches whose weekly service is designed to be a safe place for people that have given up on church but not on God. (However, they also apply to any church that seeks to be welcoming in its weekly service.)
Language
What you don't want is for people to come to your service and notice that they don't know the Christianese language being spoken - AND WORSE - that they'll need to learn it to connect or participate.
Everyone would agree with this in the abstract, but how many churches express themselves on a weekly basis denies the veracity of such statements.
Everyone would agree with this in the abstract, but how many churches express themselves on a weekly basis denies the veracity of such statements.
Unchurched People
Churched people are much more likely to know the meaning of Christianese words, slogans, and catch phrases than unchurched people are.
So what language does the music that your church uses speak? What language is your service spoken in? Is it narrow-cast in Christianese or broadcast in the language that people speak in everyday life?
If the only language that people really understand is their own, are you speaking it? Should translation be a visitors job and responsibility or yours?
Are you even aware of the language barrier and what needs to be translated in the first place? What does the language you use provide as answers to these questions?

So what language does the music that your church uses speak? What language is your service spoken in? Is it narrow-cast in Christianese or broadcast in the language that people speak in everyday life?
If the only language that people really understand is their own, are you speaking it? Should translation be a visitors job and responsibility or yours?
Are you even aware of the language barrier and what needs to be translated in the first place? What does the language you use provide as answers to these questions?

As U.S. Congregations noted, "[s]trong congregations ... work to ensure that their services are meaningful to those they hope to bring into their midst." This requires constantly considering those who haven't come yet.
Dr. David Manner, Director of Worship and Administration for Kansas-Nebraska Convention of Southern Baptists, writes, "Welcoming includes those who are not and may never be present. Welcoming worship purposefully considers those who are often neglected and easily ignored."
Dr. David Manner, Director of Worship and Administration for Kansas-Nebraska Convention of Southern Baptists, writes, "Welcoming includes those who are not and may never be present. Welcoming worship purposefully considers those who are often neglected and easily ignored."
So if you are designing your weekly service to be safe place for those who have given up on church, consider this: What percentage of people who are unchurched or who have given up on church relate to Praise Music vs regular music?
If we're being honest, we'd have to acknowledge that Praise Music would account for a microscopic percentage. This doesn't mean that these people aren't on a spiritual journey and don't draw spiritual truth, meaning and sustenance from all kinds of sources in creation. What it means is that Praise Music is not usually among them.
"Given Up On Church" People
It is of utmost importance to make the following distinction clear; a person who has given up on church is often VERY DIFFERENT from a person who has given up on the last church that they were attending. "Given Ups" tend to fall into two categories; (1) those who have attended a church recently/regulary and are Wounded/Disenfranchised and (2) those who attend church nominally as children but stopped attending later in life.
The "Wounded/Disenfranchised" are people who have left the church, because at some point, it became clear to them that attending church was detrimental to their spiritual well-being. These aren't people who had stylistic differences with or weren't "being fed" at their most recent place of worship. These are people who talk about their leaving the church in terms of "exile" or "Post Traumatic Church Syndrome."
The Wounded/Disenfranchised have often been wounded by abusive leaders, boundary police and uncritical thinking. Christianese language was often part of the suffocating, wounding experience they suffered.
If your weekly service is designed to be a safe place for the Wounded/Disenfranchised, you need to make sure that you aren't utilizing unfiltered Christianese/Evangelical language. This is part of what made these people feel like they were unwelcome, didn't fit in, or couldn't be authentic in their church-attending experience.
Although being careful with the vocabulary used would seem obviously necessary your goal is to provide a safe harbor for the Wounded/Disenfranchised, the scope of this effort isn't always extended to Praise Music. It doesn't use the language of lament, doubt and questioning that these people are often desperate to hear.
Although being careful with the vocabulary used would seem obviously necessary your goal is to provide a safe harbor for the Wounded/Disenfranchised, the scope of this effort isn't always extended to Praise Music. It doesn't use the language of lament, doubt and questioning that these people are often desperate to hear.
These wounded souls need your sensitivity so that they can heal. You can avoid unintentionally jabbing their sore spots by simply changing words here and there. However, this requires the knowledge of what those words are in the first place. Does your church have, value and make use of that knowledge and sensitivity? What does the language you use provide as an answer to that question?
Other "Given-Ups" fall into the category of those who attend church nominally as children but stopped attending later in life. People from this group who decide to give your church a try will not be fluent in the Christianese language that churched people have been immersed it. Though Christianese may not be a trigger for them that jabs bruised and wounded areas in their spirits like it does for the Wounded/Disenfranchised, they may not know what those words mean. This has the potential to serve as an unnecessary barrier to their being able to connect.
Other "Given-Ups" fall into the category of those who attend church nominally as children but stopped attending later in life. People from this group who decide to give your church a try will not be fluent in the Christianese language that churched people have been immersed it. Though Christianese may not be a trigger for them that jabs bruised and wounded areas in their spirits like it does for the Wounded/Disenfranchised, they may not know what those words mean. This has the potential to serve as an unnecessary barrier to their being able to connect.
Praise Music and Gen X/Millennials
Members of these two generations have been saturated with marketing since birth. As a result, they've been conditioned to smell inauthenticity and sales pitches from a mile away. They are far less tolerant of mediocrity than previous generations. As a result, Praise Music often doesn't resonate with them.
Any group or organization that wishes to connect with members of these generations must use imagery and vocabulary that indicate that they are current and progressive. If a group or organization isn't pursuing those things, members of this generation will go elsewhere. This can be seen in study after study that show that Gen Xers and Millenials tend to avoid church services en mass.
To many in these generations, genre is language. Christianese has never resonated with them, with the exception of a small percentage who are lifelong church-goers. It doesn't relate to them, it doesn't speak their language and it doesn't resonate with how they experience spirituality, awe, wonder, meaning, connection and community.
Praise Music's lack of diversity, creativity and variety can be a powerful turn off.
Praise Music's lack of diversity, creativity and variety can be a powerful turn off.
When we continue to trot out the same old, stale Praise Music year after year, decade after decade, it sends the (hopefully) unintentional message to these demographics that they are not an audience being taken into consideration, let alone being understood, accommodated or valued.
This is all the more tragic because they, much better than the generations before them, understand the need for and value of community, connection and cooperative learning. They are deeply spiritual and want to ask critical questions that will stimulate new understanding and growth.
For the most part, Praise Music doesn't provide them the format or vocabulary to do that. So who will provide it?
This is all the more tragic because they, much better than the generations before them, understand the need for and value of community, connection and cooperative learning. They are deeply spiritual and want to ask critical questions that will stimulate new understanding and growth.
For the most part, Praise Music doesn't provide them the format or vocabulary to do that. So who will provide it?
Monday, April 21, 2014
Praise Music Discontent: Part 3 - An Alternate Approach - Jeff Wiersma
If we really believe that God created everything and called it good, then everything is not just potentially-redeemable; any creative work is inspired by the spark of the divine. Art for art's sake glorifies God. For some reason, this worldview hasn't permeated church music. We're still saddled with contrived, outdated and theologically erroneous labels like "secular music" and "Christian music."
In Part 1 of this blog series ("Missing The Biblical Narrative & Why The Music That You Do Matters"), I provided a lot of questions to think about regarding how the church relies too heavily on unfiltered Praise Music and the missed opportunities that result from that.
In Part 2 of this blog series ("Demographics Malnourished by Praise Music"), I explored some serious, critical questions about whether Praise Music, though helpful to certain specific demographics, is any longer beneficial to many of those already attending and any of those not already attending church.
In part 3, I will discuss ...
- So Then What Do You Do Instead of Unfiltered Praise Music?
- Encouraging Participation
So Then What Do You Do Instead Of Unfiltered Praise Music?
Filter/Edit Praise Music
If it were a matter of my personal preference and taste, I probably wouldn't do many - if any- Praise Music songs as a band leader. But since leading the music portion of Sunday Service isn't about my preferences, I work in Praise songs that are sound theologically, artistically and creatively. However, I do go over them with a fine-tooth comb and often swap out problematic words for ones that give either a different perspective or a fuller, missional expression.
Non-church Songs
In my years of leading music at church, I have often been asked, "Why would you do a non-church song as part of a church service?"My answer usually goes something like this; if we really believe that God created everything and called it good, then everything is not only potentially-redeemable but any creative work in inspired by the spark of the divine.
This worldview hasn't permeated American Church Culture. We're still saddled with contrived labels like "secular music" and "Christian music."
But God is way bigger than the labels the church often uses. So I stretch beyond the cloister and tap into the often more spiritually and creatively genuine music being made outside of the Christian Music Industry. (For a more comprehensive, detailed probing of this particular idea, check out The Holy Spirit, Common Grace and Art ).
The church that I attend purposefully designs services to follow an intentional flow. The Double Ramp Model we utilize aims for broad appeal at both the beginning and ending of the service. This is done in the effort to ensure that anyone coming in off the street, ESPECIALLY the unchurched, can relate to what they are hearing.

I always do a non-church song as an opening tune. I've used everything from Pink Floyd to U2, Killswitch Engage to Pearl Jam, Amos Lee to The Smashing Pumpkins, The Cult to Coldplay, Nick Drake to The Killers.
That non-church song opener is always a song that ties into and reinforces that day's theme. However, it distinctly demonstrates that you don't have to be a church-goer to relate to what we say and that you're welcome if - like me - you draw more spiritual sustenance from regular music than any Jars of Clay, Third Day, Hillsong or Chris Tomlin song.
Hymns
I also turn to hymns quite often. They have several qualities that make them an excellent fit for what I feel church music should strive to achieve. Primarily, they were written to be sung in a community worship setting. Additionally, they were not generated by a for-profit industry - whereas the goal of the Christian Music Industry is to sell products, which leads to the reverse engineering their product to meet the demands of a predominantly consumerist, individualistic society.
An interesting aside; hymns were songs written on organs - because that was the way that bar patrons were used to hearing songs played. Additionally, many were put to the melodies of their day's non-church songs.
This doesn't mean that I have my band play hymns as they've always been done. After all, we don't have an organ! Like any other song I arrange, I tweak the key, instrumentation and song mapping to arrive at something that gives the congregation the best chance to participate together in song, which is one of the most powerful of all spiritual experiences.
Encouraging Participation
Arrangement and Key Choice
I play with the arrangements and key of almost every song I select. As I noted in Part 1, many CCM songs are written to show-off a single vocalist's talent in order to sell records. But when the goal of the music during Sunday Service is to come together as a community and participate corporately, CCM songs are ill-suited for the task.
One extreme in Praise Music is excessively melodramatic or orchestral production. By taking sometime to trim the fat of Nashville or Bethel largesse, you can help to keep the congregation engaged and feeling like they are active participants, not passive spectators.By adding your own feel to counteract the other extreme of Praise Music - cookie-cutter, bland, and vanilla arrangements without soul - you can keep the congregation from zoning out. It will also help your band members to look alive if the music they are playing actually has feel to it and interests them.
It also helps to change the key of the song to one that allows people to comfortably sing the melody in an octave within their range, be it a low octave or a high octave.
You can give a visible, unspoken invitation for everyone in attendance to sing the melody by having vocalists sing the melody one octave apart from the beginning of the song through to the end.
Since I began using this tactic, the difference this has made in congregational participation has been immense. It also actively counteracts the Praise Music tendency to have a solo, show-off vocal performances which turns congregants from fellow worshippers into spectators.
To be able to change the keys and structures of song, an audio editing tools like Audacity is a must.
Involving Others
One mistake that the contemporary church has made is relying to heavily on the band leader as the only person to communicate with the congregation. Often, the band leader introduces the songs, guides the flow of the service, and even does most of the readings and announcements. This can send the unspoken message that the band leader is the one person acting as conduit for the worship experience.
One way that I've actively countered this cultural bias is to involve as many different people as possible in the presentation of the material. I will have a different band member read each of our readings. This is has the result of bringing other voices (youth, female, non-leaders) to the fore and showing that each member of the community has the ability (and responsibility) to make our time together one of corporate expression.
Gather Data
In my time as a band leader and service planner, I've developed some ways to gather data on a weekly basis to provide long-ranging, quantifiable data by which to grade your church's performance.
Keep Track Of Song SelectionFirst and foremost, document your song selection. Anecdotal or non-quantifiable statements like "we do a good job" or "this person liked that one song" can be helpful in short-term encouragement of volunteers, but you will be ill-served if you rely on them as a comprehensive data set.
By documenting the songs you use and categorizing them, you'll soon be able to see whether the goal of being welcoming is something that is intentionally implemented or merely remains an abstract value everyone just says that they believe in.
This also allows you to track how often songs are being repeated, how much diversity you are offering in the way of genre and style, and give quantifiable ratios that can be discussed and assist in future strategic planning.
Actively and Continually Seek Input
Secondly, solicit feedback from the groups you are hoping to provide a space for.
You need to actively seek the input of those may be less prone to share their opinion - those who may reside at the margins.
Seeking out input in this way is especially effective because it shows interest and appreciation to groups who may be experiencing the exact opposite from a typical church services. Don't assume that you know what these groups are looking for or how they prefer to express themselves; actually find out.
Most importantly, work to put together a time of music that genuinely reflects the culture and needs of your community and don't be afraid to stretch artistically and creatively.
- Part 1 - Missing The Biblical Narrative & Why The Music That You Do Matters
- Part 2 - Demographics That Are Malnourished by Praise Music
Friday, April 18, 2014
The Theology of The Cross - notes from theology class at Calvin College
The cross is where God meets humanity where it is - on the way to the grave. Paradoxically, where God looks least recognizable is where God is most fully revealed.
At the cross, God is being an iconoclast of himself. At the cross, God destroys all of the preconceived notions of what God is like; all-powerful, all-knowing and transcendent.
In being crucified, Jesus returns the experience and realities of suffering, pain, humiliation and abandonment to what is the triune life of God. It is difficult to understate the theological and existential importance of the reality that God suffers along with us, continually.
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